The Ember Blog 

There are moments when life feels as though it is already moving ahead of you.

The calendar says one thing. Your mind is somewhere ten steps beyond it.

And there are enough unknowns in front of you ...

There is a strange moment in the life of an idea when it stops feeling like something you are creating and starts feeling like something you have been entrusted with. 

I am standing in one of those m...

Now that you’ve transformed, who are you becoming?

There is a version of transformation we rarely talk about.

Not the burning.
Not the breaking.
Not the moment everything becomes impossible to ignore....

Even typing that feels significant.

For more than thirty years, I have supported other people, cheered them on, helped them build, helped them believe, and made sure their names were seen.

I have cr...

On money, memory, expansion, and the ordinary phrase that brings me back to center.

There are certain memories that do not announce themselves as life lessons while you are living them.

They are too...

Why revealing the cover was not the same as releasing the story.

On January 1st, I released the cover of Raised by Fire.

And a funny thing happened.

People congratulated me.

They celebrated the ti...

On trust, resistance, and refusing to make permanent decisions from inside the gray.

There is a particular kind of tired that does not announce itself as a breakdown.

It does not throw dishes.
It doe...

The Thousands of Tiny Decisions No One Sees

People see the finished book.

They see the cover reveal.
The launch.
The interviews.
The celebration.

What they rarely see are the thousands of tiny decisio...

There are years that feel like chapters.
And then there are years that feel like entire books closing themselves — gently, decisively — as a new one places itself in your hands.

For many of us, this ...

Dating in today’s world can feel like navigating a maze—exciting, confusing, and sometimes downright frustrating. If you’ve ever found yourself questioning why you’re drawn to the same type of partner...

When you think of confidence, what comes to mind? Perfectly curated Instagram feeds? Flawless speeches? Airbrushed magazine covers? Society often tells us that confidence comes from perfection, but he...

The holiday season is full of magic, joy, and opportunities for connection—but let’s be honest: it can also be overwhelming. From endless to-do lists to the pressures of social obligations, it’s easy ...